Happy “Hot Mess” December


December was a hot mess no doubt.

I honestly had no time to work on anything or do anything relaxing, because working in retail during the holidays took all of my time and energy. On top of that I had a whole bunch of issues with my car insurance company. And that ended up costing me a bunch of money I don’t have so that was a hell on it’s own. That being said I’d like to share a few of my favourite things from the month of December.


This month I was late to the train and I discovered Daniel Ceasar after he had already came to my city. His album “Freudian” gets my heart on a deep level. The first track “Get you” is a song I want to fuck to so bad it’s so sexy. ” We find love ” is also a killer break up song. I had a little obsession with JMSN as well at the beginning of the month. “Whatever makes you happy” is a such a good slow jam album also great to fuck to just saying.



I picked up a few books this month too. Some were gifts that I haven’t read yet, but I’m so excited to.

  • Hand in the Bush: The Fine are of Vaginal Fisting by Deborah Addington
  • Big Big Love By Hanne Blank
  • Communion: the Female Search for Love By Bell Hooks
  • Sex Object by Jessica Valenti
  • We should all be Feminists by  Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
  • The H-Spot by Jill Filipovic ( I left it in Calgary months ago and just got it back)


I was very overwhemled most of December and I tried to avoid any information over loads so unfortunate I missed out on a bunch of great posts, but here are a few I enjoyed when I had the time.

Kiss Me Thru The Phone: A Guide to Phone Sex By Suz

8 Masturbation Tips for Giving Yourself An Incredible Orgasm by Zoe Ligon for Allure

6 Strategies Every Feminist Needs for Effective, Change-Making Dialogue

What else?

Other than that I spent a lot of time that I could with my friends . Did some Christmas baking for them, and my family, while catching up on podcasts like the Dildorks. I took a quick trip to Calgary and spent Christmas there. My cousins, my sister and I got pictures with Santa, which was really cute and fun. My family is filled with gorgeous women and I love them all.

Well that’s it for December. I’m glad it’s over. January is filled with new beginnings and I am here for it . Until next time friends. Thanks for sticking with me. I have things coming up for you to glue your eyes to.

How was your December? I hope it wasn’t a hot holiday mess like mine.

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